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I don't like the term "dating", because the meaning is too easily confused. One may, for example, be in a relationship that involves "courting" or a relationship that only involves "casual socializing". The expectation of establishing exclusivity and commitment either exists or it doesnt, respectively.
Consequently, it is not wrong to casually socialize with multiple individuals. However, one should never court two or more at once, IMHO. It is not healthy, socially or emotionally, and it consistently leads to drama.
Now, I agree with lovehaiku84 that "exclusivity is not something that you should make assumptions about." However, when a certain level of intimacy comes into play, exclusivity should not only be expected but demanded... and, of course, discussed for confirmation purposes (so that there is no misunderstanding).
I consider a 'player' someone who pretends to court several individuals in exchange for intimacy with them.
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