On that note, I think I'll send one to my mother too. She called to tell me that my cousin & her family is unable to attend the wedding. Well, it turns out that my mother told her that b/c we have some cancellations, she can be invited. My cousin didn't sound so thrilled at this & I still can't believe my mom would tell anyone this. We did not have an A or B list. We simply didn't invite this cousin b/c I haven't seen or spoken to her in over 7 years so I thought I'd rather invite friends I do see & talk to often than a relative I hardly know. I just didn't think my mom would tell her.
I think that I need to have a serious sit-down talk with my mom about manners.