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Originally posted by aephi alum
Did you have any families where one child was college-age and another was younger? I can envision some disappointment when 17-year-old Sally is told that her 18-year-old brother John is to be invited, but she's too young.
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We did have a family like that. It was an older brother and then his two younger brothers were in high school, but with HS boys I would invision it's not that big of a deal if your brother gets invited to a wedding and you are not. The family did not complain, in fact they gave us more $$ then we ever expected them to give us, so we don't think they had a problem with it.
The main reason we did the college rule was because we invited about 450 people and we had to cut the list somewhere. It ended up that 350 people showed up, but my parents and I don't believe in an A and B list so that was the best we could come up with.