CarolinaCutie you have a good memory
I can see what you are saying about strong christian women not being comfortable with strippers in that context.
I can also see why there are less religious women that would naturally feel threatened by strippers and their aura of sexuality.
Personally I have little invested in the debate. Although many probably think that I am being a devil's advocate or argumentative, i do indeed know of a large percentage of men that have cheated during their bachelor party.
I don't think its necessarily a big issue (to me) its just a choice they make a consequence they have to accept if she finds out.
I do find that a lot of women I know are . . . naive . .. about it.
I was actually thinking that maybe a lot of women knew about it, but refused to think about it because they didn't want to ruin their relationship.
Would you really want to know? If it was a one time thing?
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Originally posted by CarolinaCutie
Anyway, "hate the sin, love the sinner" and all that good stuff. But going to a strip club is basically placing yourself in a den of lust. I can see why a strong Christian woman would not want her husband to have a stripper at his bachelor party. It's not censorship of women, because the verses should be applicable to both sexes. It's about respecting the marriage (or impending marriage).
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