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I'm posting because I was once debating the same question you are, and everyone has given you very good advice. It's always wise to wait. In my case, I ended up not moving and the distance allowed me to take a step back and look at the relationship objectively, and that's ultimately what clued me in that it wasn't going to work out. (That and some other things, but anyway.) I am thankful every day that I chose not to up and move to another country with that guy, because if I had, I have no idea what shape I'd be in right now. I know the relationship probably wouldn't have worked because he and I had different priorities, and I would've just ended up disappointed. So there's nothing wrong with waiting a while, and if your boyfriend doesn't see it that way, then you'll get your answer sooner than you thought.
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