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Personally, for me it's all about honesty. Would I be upset if a fiancee of mine got done with a male stripper or whatever? Not if we discussed beforehand and established some rules for it.
In fact, concerning the whole sex thing, while I value honesty above all, I'd be less upset if I was cheated on than if she fell in love with someone else.
Being cheated on I could work through and get over. Sexual desire is something completely independant of love. If she fell for someone else, I'd leave. I refuse to be second in someone else's heart.
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