I'm glad you had a good ELC visit.
One suggestion I would have would be to actually limit their "policing" powers.
When we had visits, we were always paranoid that even the tiniest, smallest violation would land us in probation. We were usually paranoid because the smallest violation of any policy usually DID land us on probation, which wasn't fair.
We would have had alot better experience and got alot more out of our ELC visits if we didn't have to worry about what we said or what he saw or what he heard.
If there was a degree of confidentiality with their visits, and not a "I'M TELLING IHQ ON YOU" mentality, then I think it would be alot more useful.
I'm really just trying to say is that maybe we should limit the policing powers of ELC's a little bit to help the brother relax and really learn from them.
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