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hmmm....this is an interesting thread indeed.
So my questions are:
1. Are bachelor parties somehow exempt from the normal rules of cheating?
Definitely not. Why do guys seem to think that? From what I've heard, it's definitely common for guys to get strippers for their bachelor parties which...I'm ok with (not thrilled with the idea, but ok with it). I'm guessing trouble probably comes when things get out of hand and the guys have too much to drink and suddenly it becomes an excellent idea to bang the stripper without any thought of the concequences.
2. Do girls realize that cheating goes on at these parties and don't care as long as they don't know for sure?
I think it probably goes on a little more often than girls think (just speculating here!) although if the guy cheats at the bachelor party, it's probably either because he has had way too much to drink or he's just a cheater in general. I just think that if you're in a mutually exclusive relationship, that definitely does not mean bachelor parties are an exception to the rule!
3. If you found out later, maybe after you were married, would it matter? Would you leave him?
I know I would be very upset and angry if I found out my groom cheated at his bachelor party. I'd definitely want him tested for diseases and we'd have to have a serious talk about our marriage and our options. We all have skeletons in our closets but....that's a pretty damn big skeleton. Turning the situation around, I know that if I ever cheated on him, bachelorette party or not, I'd be gone in two seconds. There are no exceptions to the rule in my relationships. It would be so hard to trust someone if they kept something that huge a secret.
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