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Originally posted by James
Often times its not initiated by the person getting married . . . Its his friends that lead him into hell. A bachelor party has the drinking of a 21st birthday party, combined with a sex show . . by the end of the night the poor groom to be has no sense of social inhibition and has been tanatalized by some fanatsy girl (s) that his friends provided for him.
Plus, culturally the bachelor party is a place where extreme behavior is understood to be normal.
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James, sweetie. You know I love ya..... but NO. NO NO NO NO NO!!!!
Besides, there is a big difference between extreme behavior (getting drunk and puking in your best man's car.... dancing with some skanky girl at a club..... Or even (as happened to my friend's husband) getting spanked with a whip by a stripper) and CHEATING.
There is no excuse for it. If I was with a man who's friends actually thought that was acceptable behavior, and would throw a bachelor party to try and hook him up with someone, then I would seriously question the man himself.
And again.... I WAS DUNK AND DIDN'T KNOW WHAT I WAS DOING is not an excuse.
