[honeychile]

1. Are bachelor parties somehow exempt from the normal rules of cheating?
Absolutely not! It sounds like you guys have been hanging out with some guys who really aren't ready to get married yet.

2. Do girls realize that cheating goes on at these parties and don't care as long as they don't know for sure?
Cheating is cheating. Period. And if she doesn't care, she's not ready to get married!

3. If you found out later, maybe after you were married, would it matter? Would you leave him?
The truth ALWAYS comes out! People think it doesn't, but it's just a matter of how the injured party decides to take it. I'm against prostitution in all forms, which any man with whom I've been involved knows - most clearly! That said, I don't know about the second part. I'm a facillitator at a divorce recovery seminar, and if I had a nickel for every woman who wishes she hadn't left her cheating husband, I could retire. Never having been in that position, I don't know how I'd react - but he'd darn straight have to have every STD test imaginable before he so much as held my hand!