1. Are bachelor parties somehow exempt from the normal rules of cheating?
Not at all. It's even worse because he should know better what he can loose if he screws it up.
2. Do girls realize that cheating goes on at these parties and don't care as long as they don't know for sure?
I don't know of any woman who'd approved of their signifcant other or spouse allowed to have some kind of get out of jail free card for cheating since it's a bachelor party. If he needs to still sow his oats, then he's not ready for the walk down the aisle. Let alone marriage.
3. If you found out later, maybe after you were married, would it matter? Would you leave him?
Yes, because he broke a convenant he made before God and me. I would leave him and find a lawyer to sue him for everything I could get. Actually I have a very stupid male cousin who pulled this crap after he was married and his wife dropped him like a bad habit. His kids are paying the price because he "HAD" to have some. It's never worth it in the end.
And for a.e.B.O.T.. How would it feel to know that you passed your wife an std or worse because you had any form of sex stripper/hooker who lied to her agency about her test results? Have you considered the other possibility of having said stripper/hooker coming out of the woodwork years later and suing you for child support if she got pregnant?
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