[BLUTANG]

Hi all... as a newbie to the board, I have to echo many of you on the flaws: at times I’m impatient, I have a lil' bit of a temper, I am SUPER forgetful, I procrastinate (occasionally) and I try to please others while neglecting myself. However, my biggest flaw is my ability to dismiss people. I have been dubbed an "ice princess" b/c people think I’m that cold. I have a policy: you get ONE GOOD TIME (OGT) to mess up. After that, I'm through. This goes for boyfriends, professional relationships, my girls - whatever. I guess it's because I'm so willing to give to others, when they let me down (especially when I feel I’ve been disrespected) - it's OVER. I give no second chances and since I’m forgetful anyway, we don't have to worry about me remembering your name/phone #/e-mail or whatnot. If you use up that OGT, you cease to exist in my world. I know that's a horrible habit, but it's my flaw and I’m working on it. I am just so glad that others have been able to look past MY mistakes, and that I serve a good (and forgiving) God.