CJUS, you are on point!!!
The lips are a big deal! I can't stand a man with mushy lips... They need to be firm and smooth... His lips shouldn't feel like I imagine mine must feel, pouty and moist... UGH!!!
I kissed this guy once, lips felt like a melted marshmallow... I was so turned off that I literally got sick to my tummy. I stopped abruptly and wanted him to GO HOME! In reflection, I was kinda wrong in how I handled it...
Later he kept asking, what did I do?? You didn't want me to kiss you??
LOL -- I told him that I did, INITIALLY... but his lips were not his strong point. Today he and I are friends, and I have since told him WHY I sent him home, and he thinks it's funny. But I don't. I still get disgusted at the thought of his soggy wet lips...