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Originally posted by leesek
There should not be a "B" list for Wedding invitations. You decide how many people you can invite and send them out, usually about 4-6 weeks before the event.
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I totally agree with you!! I just got married a year ago and refused to do the A and B list, not that I had a choice, my mom and mother-in-law were dead set against it too. In my opinion I would rather not be invited to a wedding (at least you don't have to spend the money on the gift) then to know, by getting the invitation late, that I was on the B list.
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Originally posted by BetteDavisEyes
My fiance & his mother think it is perfectly acceptable to send the little notes that inform our guests where we are registered along with the wedding invite. My family disagrees and feel that guests are informed if they ask, otherwise, they bring you whatever they want.
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Yes, you should never put a note about your registry in with your wedding invitation. What the best solution that I have seen and I did was to put something along the lines of that with your bridal shower invitation. All the people that are going to the bridal shower should be going to the wedding too, so that way they will know. For the guests that are not going to the shower the best way to for them to find out is through word of mouth. At least that what they say in all the bridal planners.