[honeychile]

While many stores are even providing little cards, to show where you are registered, it's still terribly tacky.

If your beloved and his mother are trying to steer people towards the Registry Lists, insist that they either mail out a separate notes ("I thought you might appreciate knowing that BetteDavis is registered at the following stores - I know that I'm always left wondering what to purchase! We would have said so in the invitations, but as you know, it's rather gauche.") and left them send them out only to extremely close friends.

By now, you'd think people would know to ask where the couple has registered! I know that I always do (even if I don't plan to get something on the list!).