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Originally posted by WVU alpha phi
Yes, I was cheated on a few years ago by my boyfriend- with my best friend in my own bed. Needless to say, it was more than a little rough.
I know it's complete insecurities and I want to do my best to get rid of them, but I almost feel like he should be helping out too. We got in a HUGE fight last night and today and all I asked was for him to SHOW me he loves me instead of constantly SAYING it. He seems to think everything is fixed with an "I love you." He thinks I'm being selfish and he shouldn't have to prove anything, but I'm looking at it from the point that if he DID love me, he'd want me to believe it.
Am I just crazy?
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I agree that some counseling is a good idea . You can't make him responsible for the sins of your last boyfriend. It's not fair.
If it was a guy saying to a girl "show me that you love me", all of the ladies on this board would most likely tell her to dump him.