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Originally posted by Professor
why have friends that you can't tell how you feel - yea, i'm sure she is still in love but why be a fool. what can she expect him to do - - - come back to her saying he changed his mind. its a good thing to be friends now maybe she can hang out at the gay club with him - lol
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Well, with *some* women, there is a line that friends do not cross. Yes, we should all have friends that we can trust with any and everything. But with affairs of the heart some things we can't trust our friends with. Some women have ulterior motives and will create drama, whether that drama is created b/c she wants her friends man or that she doesn't want to see her friend happy. So when some friends, a close friend or associate, says something negative *some* women will wonder why and then 9 times outta ten a rift is created.
Yes, saying "Terry your hubby is gay, take the blinders off!" is what ALL of her friends and family should have said. But I'm sure they didn't want to labeled as the one that is "hating" or whatever.
I'm speaking from experience here. LOL! I used to have a friend that really needed a wake up call regarding her fiance (now husband) and she didn't believe me when she was told that her fiance kept making comments about me to people. We are no longer friends, and now she is in an unhappy marriage. I wonder what could be wrong with her marriage.
