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In the subject, write the name of person who referred you.

In the email, write a quick note, calling attention to the person who referred you to them and how you know them (You might say, "My relative, Susie Brown" instead of "My mommy"), then ask if they would mind meeting with you for an informational interview to learn about the field, how they got started and any advice they have for you. Attach your resume and in your email list some career or experience highlights and your interests.

Bring your resume when you meet with them. Get feedback. Ask them about themselves, their career, professional associations, and the names of additional contacts you can get in touch with (refer back to this person when you contact those people.)

Send an immediate thank you note following the meeting and send them a monthly hey there-- maybe a link to an article relevant to the industry. Keep the lines of communication open. If they liked you at your meeting and you keep in touch, they will send your resume onto their contacts or give you a heads-up when they hear about a job that might suit you.

Having an "in" with them-- be it through a relative or friend-- is a benefit. Use your network, grow that network and maintain the network through good communication.