[OhSoDetermined]

Ok, I am going to choose my words very carefully. I understand that you had some problems with a NPHC sorority. I understand that you did not find what you were looking for. I understand that it was not a dream come true for you. I undertsand that you wish to create something to fill what you consider to be a void. SO.... DO JUST THAT!!! It is obvious from your posts that you have some unresolved bitterness from your interactions with another sorority, but I strongly suggest you face those emotions and disappointment personally before you unintentionally spread it among your other members like a suffocating virus. There is nothing more UNattractive to me than an organization that is fixated on what is wrong in another organization; why would someone wish to join a group that judges, condescends and gains a sense of fufillment from looking down on others? It is easy to point fingers, but until your group has survived trials and tribulations for a century when people did not want you to last one day, then you are not in a position to criticize. YOU SAY "SO MANY OBSTACLES" BUT YOU HAVE NOT EVEN BEEN INCORPORATED FOR A WEEK!!!! Imagine what the NPHC has been through, trying to find their way without the luxury of an internet or so much good advice from GCers. So maybe you feel from what you have seen that there is a lack of unity among the NPHC. Take note of it and do your best not to have the same thing happen between yourself and the other Christian sororities. But sweetheart, you are getting a little too big for your britches. Founder or not, there is a tone you should have when addressing people, especially when you are asking them for help. Go back through the posts and see I was one of the first to comment and have only wished you well. Slow down, listen to those around, remain in prayer and continue to be respectful and I hope that this sorority provides you and others all that they desire.