People are holding your group under scrutiny because it is new and unproven. NPHC groups are under constant scrutiny, I don't know where you're getting that from. Any large group is. No one here can speak for those groups- one person speaking for a group of tens of thousands of members isn't appropriate- but you can speak for yours as you are a founder.
I'm sorry that you didn't see it fit to address my post.
You came here asking questions and looking for advice. When given it, you get defensive.
You seem to have some tunnel vision going on, with a dose of stubbornness. If you want to succeed, you're going to need the advice and assistance of many people. The advice and information you're getting here is worth its weight in gold. If you don't realize that, i'm sorry, but you're doing your group a great disservice.