[Jill1228]

It is not something that you do on a snap decision. I have done this.

1. I had nothing holding me in the DC area
2. He had a kid and I thought it was important for a young kid at the time to be near both parents (the kid was 8 at the time)

He came and visited me first in 11/97...I think he woulda moved there if he could have gotten a job

Then I flew out for almost 2 weeks to see him in 3/98

I made the decision to move about a month after that

Then he came to see me in 7/98 and met my family and helped me move.

It worked out...3.5 years after I moved out there for him, I married him