awight GC here's the real
She has to be too bougious (sp

) to be ghetto yet she also has to be to ghetto to be bougious( sp).
yep i said it thats me my lady has to have balance
either extreme is un attractive
sometimes one has to be able to look a person as if that person has sh...t on their face and refuse to wipe it off,
but there are time when a person has to be able and willing to just give someone a well desrved cussiin out
she also has to know which is appropiate at the moment
although we may fancy ourselves among the talented tenth, (and possibly rightly so) Somewhere in our american ancestry there were unenlightened folk, so we shouldn't discount our Ghetto brethen