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Old 11-01-2005, 03:04 PM
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Originally posted by ktsnake
Someone (maybe you?) made the argument that he might be abusive, and this might make him mad, to which I replied, she needs to get a TRO and a divorce if he's abusing her, not to mention seeking criminal charges. I think women that allow their husbands to beat them and their children are contributing to their children's abuse and should be held at least partially responsible (but that's another issue).
I'm not claiming to be any sort of expert on this, but from what I know getting a restraining order and/or a divorce isn't like going down to K Mart and getting a bottle of shampoo.

This is in PA, re a temporary restraining order.

http://www.womenslaw.org/PA/PA_how_t...use%20Order%20

If you need to file for an order immediately and the county courthouse is closed, call your local police department to see which District Justice is on-call. S/he may be able to grant you an emergency order that will last until the next business day when you must go to the prothonotary to file for a Protection from Abuse Order.

(bold print mine) That doesn't sound too reassuring or easy to me - especially around here where our counties are HUGE and a drive to the county seat can take an hour, IF you have access to a car.
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