I feel this discussion will not come to a conclusion, so yes, being a Delta does supercede being a sweetheart, but it does not supercede my friends who are still hearts and Iotas, BECAUSE THEY ARE MY FRIENDS. But I love being a Delta. I just dislike being judged and not respected on a individual choice that I am not ashamed of. I don't ask for your respect. Because I carry myself the way I should, I will get it. That's all sorors. It's not that big of a deal.