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josh-
You're probably right that your Big is "over" the fraternity scene, but just because he isn't an active bro, doesn't mean he can't be your friend. Take the initiative. From my knowledge, the Big/Lil match ups are mutual. So he wanted you as well. In addition, you have joined a brotherhood of many, not of one...so get to know a bunch of the guys. If you end up being close to one, he may potentially "adopt" you. I know that one of my best girlfriends in DG has an adopted Big because hers went abroad right after revealing for 2 years! Find out what your Big likes and find some common ground. You chose him for a reason and maybe he will be your respite from the whole insane Greek scene when you need it.
pbpck
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