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It's too hard to making a marriage work...
Most folks wanna give up when the seas start to rumble and going gets tough...
What is a ROUGH SEA in a marriage?
Obviously, infidelity, physical-verbal abuse and abandonment...
But those events are gradual that build up over time and usually have some key moments or "red flags" that start rising to alert there is truly a problem in the relationship.
It usually starts very small. Such as a small putdown in front of folks publically--like "why do you look such and such, opposed to--whatever, whoever?"... Eventually, it turns into "You are the idiot..."
Stuff just escalates if you let it. Most folks don't even know how to try to notice when stuff until it is not going well, then by that time, it's too late...
I dunno what can change about that...
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