i'm a sweetheart. in my situation, we're sweethearts from the time we're picked up (anytime in our four years at the college) until the time we graduate and beyond. i was picked up as a freshman.
no, i didn't date any of the brothers. i was simply at the house all the time, supported them in rushing and in all their philantropic endeavors, and very good friends with most of the brothers.
they don't have any say on who i date or who i'm friends with. they care, but just as my friends and sisters would. they defend me and all that good jazz, but they're like my brothers, and brothers defend by definition. the little sister idea is the best one i've heard.
i love being a sweetheart!
