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Originally posted by AlphaFrog
Are you looking for Mr/s. Right? Forget it...if they'll leave their current for you, they'll leave you for someone else.
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People say this all the time but it's not necessarily true. Someone will leave you if he's not happy for one reason or another for someone who seems like a better option. If you consistently rock someone's world, he's not likely to go anywhere even if presented with the opportunity.
As to the original question, I'm kind of torn on it. On the one hand, you should do what you want and you owe no duty to the other person's girlfriend/boyfriend/spouse/whatever. On the other hand, it's not exactly a nice thing to do. It's really a balancing equation, and each person should decide for herself in any given situation (that's really a non-answer, but whatever).