@CT4.. I totally feel you
I was at a funeral a few weeks ago and a couple of brothas came in with white tees, jeans, and tims.... and the girl that was with them came in with a shirt that had "Candy" on it.....
When I wa growing up.. anytime i stepped into church (except choir practice, club meetings..etc) I was always in a suit and tie.. I feel weird going to church now during dress down weeks with jeans...