I just wanted to put in my two cents. I am not a member of any sorority, but I think that one thing that we must keep in mind, whether we be prospects, new members, or "old school" members...first and foremost, in a sorority, THEY ARE ALL WOMEN FIRST!!! Just because you share a 'sisterly bond' with someone doesn't mean that you will automatically become bosom buddies. Of course, ideally, that's how it would go, but REALISTICALLY, there are personalities, and habits, and such that have to be overcome.
Anything worth having has to be worked at, pruned, pampered, etc. So, IF this friend can't is so ready to call it all off, and throw in the towel, then I am sure she wasn't much of an asset to that org. in the begining and it IS in their best interest for her to let it go. (Yet, if she is so apt to give up something that she's pledged her heart to forever, then maybe Greek Life isn't the first priority she needs to work on.) Hope this all makes sense, I am up late, and can't sleep!
