Lostsister, I am not in any way saying that this is the reason that all this happened to you, but I see the same story repeating itself about older girls starting to feel like the odd person out. A really good way to keep this from happening is to cultivate friendships with the younger girls. You can't wait until your senior year to do it.....starting with the next year's pledge class to come through after yours, try and make some friendships. All of the girls from my clique were from the '91 or '92 pledge class....I was the only '90. A couple of the '91s were my age but they had waited until soph. year (very popular thing to do at KSU to try and get to know the girls in the chap. you want) You kind of end up with the reverse problem, in that for me it was hard to go alum and leave my friends behind after my 4th year, but I was getting married and since Brent had graduated I felt it was time for me to move on too.
