I have been single for many months. I am not particularly desperate but I do prefer to have someone nice than being alone all the time. I have admirers every now and then, but I don't like any one of them. Those I was attracted to, don't like me. (isn't it always so?)
Some said I need to lower my standard. I wish I could. And the thing is I don't even think that it is a matter of standard. If there is no chemistry there is no spark. I can't quite make myself to give these people a try and later hurt them by saying, no sorry, I have decided that I still can't fall in love with you.
So what is it there? Anyone of you who have similar experience please share. I'd like to see how you guys switch a friendship into a romantic affair. Or how you 'grow' to like certain someone.
Many thanks.
