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Originally posted by LisAlly514
Thank you all again for your helpful advice! I figured some of those questions may have had confidential answers.
Well, it's sunday and I haven't heard back since the last event on Friday. I was thinking of sending a little thank you email anyway, but is that weird considering it's two days afterward? Does the lack of further correspondance mean anything?
Sorry to keep bothering you guys, but you all are so helpful!
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I wouldn't worry about not hearing anything as of yet, especially since it's a weekend and everyone else has a lot of other stuff going on... the sisters may not be around to update you on future events.
I think if you still wanted to send a note it would be okay, especially if you were just like "Oh, sorry this is a little late in getting to you but I just wanted to let you all know how much I appreciated the last event". I think they would appreciate the gesture, even if it's been a few days.
You asked earlier about how you would know if you got a bid or not...at least at some schools/sororities they only contact you if you receive a bid. So don't worry about the length of time that passes, they still may be in the process of COBing. Sometimes girls don't even find out that they didn't get a bid from informal recruitment (another term for COB) until they see new members walking around in the bid day shirts. So in your case, no news is really good news.
Oh and don't EVEN worry about "bothering" us. I think all the girls here remember how it felt to be in your shoes. I know it was hard for me because at least in formal recruitment you knew WHEN you would find out if you got a bid or not. With informal recruitment, you have no idea. It can be nervewracking! But please don't worry about asking questions, I know I really appreciated having people to talk to about the whole process.
I really do hope for the best for you!