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Oh one other thing really quick...after I went to COB events for Alpha Chi, I sent a "thank you" email to the VP recruitment (the president would have been appropriate as well) to thank her and the sisters for a great time. I also asked her to keep me updated on future COB events (note: all our COB events were open to all non-Greek women so this may not be a good idea if the COB events are all invite only at your school). Later on, one of the sisters told me that she was impressed by the old school manners and she could tell I was really interested in the house. If you think this house might be one you're seriously interested in joining, sending a thank you email might be something you can do to express that interest.