The catcher should always tag the runner in that situation, its basic fundamentals.
How about Joe Crede being called out in the 7th to end the inning when he was clearly safe? Bad umping all around but bitching about umps doesn't get anyone anywhere. Its amazing how many times teams lose because the "umps" lost it for them. I still remember our third game in rocket football in fourth grade when we should have won but the umps screwed us!