[honeychile]

I think the key words are "culture" and "tradition". I'll accept some things (ie: money dance or chicken dance) if that's part of your culture - just don't expect them at my wedding!

I've been in two "rainbow weddings", one as a flower girl, and the other about 15-16 years ago. Both times, I had to wear green. The second time, when people asked me my name, I told them that I was Miss Green. Why do people always assume that the redheads want to wear green?!

I think most of y'all know that I broke my engagement this summer, but I had pretty much planned a Christmastime wedding. I think they are GORGEOUS!! Somehow, the last time I spoke to the ex, it came out that he had never realized that I was planning for a December (what part of "which weekend in December is best for you?" did he not understand?!), and said that he didn't like the idea. Great - hope he finds someone who deal with his quirks and wants to get married in May or July!