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wow I am also amazed at how cival this discussion has been.
I just want to point out that if this person is for real, she probably has some serious self-esteem issues.
1) you should never let a guy or anyone else tell you how to live your life.
Joining a sorority just like everything else in life has positives and negatives. I personally went through recruitment on a whim as a sophmore. I didn't know anything about sororities other than the obvious media images. But the girls all seemed really nice and I wanted to meet new people. now five years later I am so glad that I joined! I have made some of my best friends, and I have amazing memories.
Now you can make memories and have a great college expirance without joining a sorority. and you can do the same being in a sorority
But no matter what you decide to do you need to be happy. But understand that this is your decision. Either pick yourself up and put your all in to enjoying and being a real sister. or leave!
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