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Today I went to a wedding of a chapter sister and 6 of us surrounded her and sang. While in school (recently), our chapter was the fat girls who few fraternities wanted to associate with.
Guess what? Our sisterhood was strong because we fought for every member that came through our doors, fretted over the ones who inevitably quit for their various rediculous reasons such as reputations (that we usually concocted by stupid jealous people). We always lost video night and to the "good" chapters, but the women from my chapter were/are leaders! The chapter is now thriving, huge, with no "fat" girls to be seen! The women we fought to recruit in turn kept recruiting a higher standard.
Basically, you have a choice. Do you want to be a follower and follow all those flaky girls that quit because they were too concerned about their reps? Or do you want to stay, work hard, and change your chapter alledged (sp) repuation. Chances are your chapters repuation isn't as bad overall as you are hearing about.
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