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Originally posted by sugar and spice
You might as well stick it out until you're completely 100 percent convinced you don't want to be there. If this is where you ended up as a sophomore, you will not end up in a better house as a junior, so you shouldn't be worrying about quitting before initiation so you can re-rush next year. So stay where you are and, if things don't improve, then quit -- but know that rushing again is pretty pointless.
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Seemed to be worth emphasis. Seriously, my first thought (well, after the Cherry Vanilla Dr. Pepper) was that the only house you'd have a chance of pledging at a junior at UT would be the same place you're at.
So, your decision will affect the rest of your life:
are you the chosen people in life who are able to change a bad situation or
are you someone who, when the going gets tough, you quit?
The way a "loser sorority" becomes a loser sorority is when people whine about "it's too hard!", "nobody will mix with us", "we have a bad reputation." If it was as bad as you say, it would have been obvious before you signed your bid card.
You saw something in this group. Look for it again. Be a mover or move out - don't pull the rest of the group down.
Now, I have some cheese popcorn, and pass that Dr. Pepper!