Did you get any bids to the "winner" sororities with the bright, slender, pretty girls? If not, maybe this is your best fit?
If so, maybe you can make the best of it? You said you liked a lot of the people in the sorority.
Ultimately, friendship is really important to a lot of people.
I am sure the other girls on here will tell you how you kind of screwed yourself for a year because of wierd PanHell rules.
But . . . if you are bright, vivacious, slender and pretty and were just overlooked by all the other sororities on campus with superior looks and reputation . . . well you should have no trouble being picked up by one after a year.
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