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Thank you southernelle for your advice. As for the question about my counselor...when I go back to visit my old high school I always make a point of seeing her, and when I was in high school we were closer because she was the one who encouraged me to choose the college I wanted to attend, and not just go to a community/public state college because my mother and father wanted me to do that. But it's not really like we email back and forth or anything like that...
As for Blue Reign...I'm not exactly sure what you meant when you said "I am hopng that you don't go around talking like this..." I appreciate your advice, but do you mean that I shouldn't be talking about how I feel? I am not speaking of any organization in particular but just my lack of knowledge about the actual process, and that's not because of lack of research. And trust me, my background has not stopped me from getting involved in every possible thing I can handle with time and still be dedicated to and participate wholeheartedly, regardless of whether I want to join a Greek or not. I am always my proud self, and I don't feel like I should have to...I don't want to say hide or change, because those are strong words. But sometimes I suppose it feels like I have to shoehorn myself into a "stereotype"...and I don't want to do that.
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