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I dropped out of formal recruitment for class, time, & work related reasons. When I had my schedule figured out, I contacted the Greek Advisor about a possible COB during the spring. He told me that there were 2 chapters still looking for members. Ironically enough, these 2 houses were on my top 3 list. I contacted the first house & was invited to watch Friends & eat pizza with the girls the next night. I did & enjoyed myself so much, I knew that I had found a home. A short while later, I received a bid & signed it while tearing up & was welcomed into my new home.
I cried more later in private b/c I was so happy. My fiance thought I was sad about joining but I had to explain to him that I had happy tears.
On a sad story, this one PNM 2 years ago wasn't happy with us b/c we were her second choice. She stayed & was initiated but dropped literally the day after initiation. She then wanted to inquire if XYZ sorority was still looking for new members. She literally collapsed when she found out that not only were they not looking, she could never join another NPC group after she'd been initiated into another group. She dropped out the next semester & I've never heard whatever happened to her since.
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