brooklineu-- i agree with your statement--"I just think it looks bad to publicly go on about getting with only cute guys and partiers. Is there no discretion here? Talk about making yourself look bad" In theory-- Like we would not do this in a group gathering of strangers unless we were idiots.
But this being a pretty anonymous way to get a question answered--esp for people like Flirty, who dropped in to ask this and hasn't posted heavily elsewhere--
Well, I think this is the kind of place that we CAN ask the questions we might be embarassed, or afraid, or simply know better than to ask in person.