Oh my heart goes out to you!
When I rushed, I went through what was then called open rush. I received a bid from one house where I had friends, but that wasn't the house I really wanted. I waited all day and all evening of bid day to see if I got a bid from the house I really wanted. They never came. I was so disappointed and tried all day the next day to understand why I didn't get a bid when I had pretty much been assured at preference that I would be getting one.
As it turned out, since I lived off campus (at home) my bid did not get delivered to me on bid day, but they brought it to me the next day. The girls who were supposed to bring it to me got lost, etc. (I know. They should have called, but...)
Anyway, all that to say that things happen behind that scenes that you wouldn't expect. Hang in there and I hope it all works out for you to be a "banana"!