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I went through this two years ago....and really it took me a year to get over...so really just a year ago. I'm glad you are here posting b/c sometimes even faceless people over the internet can help wonders!!
Take Bobby's advice about hanging out with guy friends. Guy friends are gonna tell you straight up what some of us girlfriends can not. aka - "blah blah he has a small...." Plus guy friends hate to see you down, and will do anything to make ya smile. As sometimes us girls just wanna pity party with you.
I can honestly say that Nick, my former, was my best friend. And losing him meant losing all of those special best friend moments. Which I'm not gonna lie, its harder than hell to get over that. Because you want to have your best friend back.
So I tried really hard at just being friends with my ex, because of course I missed our friends moments. IT DID NOT WORK!!!! Somehow in every conversation we ended up talking about the past and about us. Which made us either angry or upset.
But this incredibly wise man, named James, told me "Jen, drop him. Lose his number, his aol screen name, everything. DON"T TALK TO HIM!" And wouldn't you know as soon as I did that, I felt better.
It sucks losing your best friend. But in end had we kept talking we would have completely hated each other and resented our past. Now its just nice to look back on.
I hope I helped a lil' bit. I ramble... but if you ever need anything feel free to pm me. Hope you feel better!!
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