[lil_sunshine]

I think about this sometimes too. My friend told me that when she passed, she wanted me to wear white to celebrate her life. This is what I'd want for my homegoing:

I want a service where there's some crying, but more rememberance than anything. I want all of my family members to wear white. Not all white, but just mostly white. I definitely want to be buried. I don't want any flowers at the service, but I do want them at the burial. I want my family to be able to visit my grave to talk to me. I don't really have any enemies, but I think if my ex and his baby's mama wanted to attend, I wouldn't want them to come. Their very presence upsets me. Just like I wouldn't want either one of them to attend my wedding. I had dreams about that and it really makes me mad.