[KSUViolet06]

AI is NOTHING like Panhellenic rush with it's rounds, invites, rankings, and second choices. AI is NOT MUTUAL SELECTION. You could pursue a sorority for YEARS and not get initiated into it. While you're talking "second choices", you may not EVER get into the org you say is your first (which I'm assuming from your other post is Alpha Phi). In your best interest, you should watch what you say. There are many alumnae women who post here in BOTH orgs. They are very well connected and know lots of other alumnae, some may be in your area.

Your haphazard "pursuit" of AI and lack of discretion and tact is laughable. It's easy to see that you're treating the AI process (something NOT taken lightly by the many orgs that do it) as a "quick fix" for your unsuccessful college recruitments. You are not prepared for the difficulty of the process at all.