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Originally posted by Lindz928
This may sound bad, but I would probably sleep with someone sooner if I saw him as just a guy that I kinda liked and had fun with but didn't see anything long term happening. But, if I actually saw the person as someone with potential for longevity, I would be more inclined to wait longer.
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This is actually a really common 'girl meme' - I've argued against it my whole life because it's bizarre self-denial with guys who aren't uptight about sex (see: every other thread about this, where 'if she sleeps with me I don't respect her!' is the cop-out of choice), but it's probably viable under the 'better safe than sorry' clause (and because of those retards previously mentioned).