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Originally posted by James
This is a response to the how soon is too soon thread . . .
But seriously, how long is too long to wait for sex?
What if your BF refuses to go past second base for months or years for whatever reason . . is that cool?
Oh, and when i mean how long to wait, I mean anything that ends in a climax . .. That way the "technical virgins" don't get confused.
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Thats why I started the other thread. One of my friends has decided that abstinence is the answer to find someone who isn't a complete asshole to date. So far it's working for her...
I think it all depends on how much time you spend together, and how much you know about one another and feel comfotable.
I would say a few months was OK... but a year plus to get passed second base... either a guy really likes you and has some patience like you can't believe. Or he's an idiot and has no clue what he's doing.