I agree with the others that she was biased going in. I mean, typically the first time you meet people - be it your dorm roommate, a new job, new classmates, etc. - you at least run a brush through your hair.
And I'm glad the AXiD's have held their heads high and moved on.
I would like to quote her last couple lines though:
"But anybody can look through a window. It takes guts, more guts than I have, to knock on a door. "
Seems someone realized she had an opportunity presented to her and she didn't have the courage to give it a try. I think there is a compliment to greek women in there somewhere...